I was over at the MOC blog, Internet surfing and catching up on News!! I read a post that was written about Me calling Me a Curmudgeon
The Definition of a Curmudgeon:
A curmudgeon's reputation for malevolence is undeserved. They're neither warped nor evil at heart. They don't hate mankind, just mankind's absurdities. They're just as sensitive and soft-hearted as the next guy, but they hide their vulnerability beneath a crust of misanthropy. They ease the pain by turning hurt into humor. . . . . . They attack maudlinism because it devalues genuine sentiment. . . . . . Nature, having failed to equip them with a servicable denial mechanism, has endowed them with astute perception and sly wit.
Curmudgeons are mockers and debunkers whose bitterness is a symptom rather than a disease. They can't compromise their standards and can't manage the suspension of disbelief necessary for feigned cheerfulness. Their awareness is a curse.
Perhaps curmudgeons have gotten a bad rap in the same way that the messenger is blamed for the message: They have the temerity to comment on the human condition without apology. They not only refuse to applaud mediocrity, they howl it down with morose glee. Their versions of the truth unsettle us, and we hold it against them, even though they soften it with humor.
- JON WINOKUR
Other Definitions of Curmudgeon:
a crusty irascible cantankerous old person full of stubborn ideas
A cantankerous person; an ill-tempered and disagreeable person
I think I will stick with the first definition..... Thank You!!!
But real fast...
I get alot of people that try to "Talk Over My Head" they try to use these "Big" words when describing Me. I find it so flattering that people try to come up with all these fancy "Adjectives" when describing Me....
I simply call it............... Being Real
On the other hand, I'm a blogger so when other bloggers look at Me as just this Porn Star who blogs. I have to keep coming back to remind people.....
Even though I use the wrong Sentence structure, Grammar usage, Run On sentences so badly that an English Major is just Vomiting on the Computer if they read this...
Thoughts and Rants are not meant to have any structure at all!! Its a bunch of random Ideas, Jokes that are all smashed together in one post!!
I'm a smart cookie, so I get the "Stabs" at Me and I can laugh at myself, I'm not that Self Absorbed...
But as a Future warning...
Bloggers, Porn Stars, Whoever, these are things I don't like about "Some People" in the Industry":
Passive Aggressive behavior
People Who think They "Talk Over My Head"
and the worst out of the bunch, People talking down to Me......
The MOC post was a friendly "Stab" at Me, I get it!! I just wanted to address "Those People" above....
The latest Definition of a Curmudgeon
They ease the pain by turning hurt into humor. They snarl
at pretense and bite at hypocrisy out of a healthy sense of outrage.
They attack maudlinism because it devalues genuine sentiment.
They hurl polemical thunderbolts at middle-class values and pop culture
in order to preserve their sanity. Nature, having failed to equip them
with a serviceable denial mechanism, has endowed them with astute
perception and sly wit. Offense is their only defense. Their weapons
are irony, satire, sarcasm, ridicule. Their targets are pretense,
pomposity, conformity, incompetence. And they'll tell you that their
targets are everywhere and multiplying like Smurfs.
I wouldn't say Smurfs, I would say GutterBunnies
You crazy Wabbits!!