tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19809141.post8764462152127465693..comments2023-12-30T19:32:41.898-08:00Comments on CRIMES AGAINST NATURE II: UH UMM...Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19809141.post-71587149506221284882010-10-09T04:25:28.444-07:002010-10-09T04:25:28.444-07:00Hi T...I agree with the comments here about forgiv...Hi T...I agree with the comments here about forgiving...to me outside your family it looks like your Grandma sorted it out in some way with her husband...I think we have to remember that parents and grandparents are people too and have their own lives...not for us kids to judge....I am impressed that he insisted on keeping his family together and that you were well brought up. Obviously proud of what he saw you achieve..my 2c worth..Regards...LaurieUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12233904313384191470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19809141.post-82086962827590829042010-10-05T03:22:19.457-07:002010-10-05T03:22:19.457-07:00Diesel, take my suggestion for the 2 cents it is w...Diesel, take my suggestion for the 2 cents it is worth. Go and see him and try to make peace, if you can. This maybe the last chance you get to see him. You said you love him, remember he is only human! We tend to hold our parents/grandparents as superheroes; but they are human and make mistakes! Trust me when I tell you this, the only person to benefit from this is yourself. Stay strong in this time and God bless.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19809141.post-20123975085858359192010-10-04T22:39:53.010-07:002010-10-04T22:39:53.010-07:00Diesel, I'm sorry to hear about your grandfath...Diesel, I'm sorry to hear about your grandfather, but I'll tell you this. A lot of men from the "old school" who kept their families together while carrying on discreet affairs were better people than the ones who never cheated, but continually showed out in other more damaging ways. Also, the fact that he maintained a long-term relationship with one other woman versus whoring up and down the street is to his credit. You are right to cut the man some slack and see him. I hope things turn out for the best.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19809141.post-91054399224131815642010-10-04T15:09:16.220-07:002010-10-04T15:09:16.220-07:00Hey man...
I'm sorry...
There's really ...Hey man... <br /><br />I'm sorry...<br /><br />There's really nothing else to say.. I get where you're coming from.. Family is fucked up, pretty sure everyone has fucked up family stuff... You're strong, and I know you'll be okay... Right now it's fine to just feel what's happening.<br /><br />I don't know what to say except that, what happened in the past has happened.. You'll hate yourself if you don't release some of that resentment for him, especially since he's not going to be around too much longer...<br /><br />Best wishes man.. It's never easy<br /><br />Make sure to call someone who cares about you later and just talk about this.. Do what you have to do to stay sane.Electric Feelinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06844757779843665466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19809141.post-20204091890607689872010-10-04T10:50:16.114-07:002010-10-04T10:50:16.114-07:00sorry to read about your current situation. life i...sorry to read about your current situation. life is all about the choices and the effects that they have on others. i hope you manage to fin a way out of this darkness. life is way too short to be stuck in the past. move forward and be a better person...take care and bless!Trojan Gordonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08878984603386665566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19809141.post-34901044261446279462010-10-04T10:48:01.035-07:002010-10-04T10:48:01.035-07:00Just read your post and i wanted say i understand ...Just read your post and i wanted say i understand your pain and i hope you find a way out of it. Life is what you make it and the legacy you leave behind..thanks for sharing....bless.Trojan Gordonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08878984603386665566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19809141.post-24781259887845287772010-10-03T20:44:35.550-07:002010-10-03T20:44:35.550-07:00mai feel ur pain during this time but what i have ...mai feel ur pain during this time but what i have learnt is that forgiveness is so powerful i just sent an email to a friend asking for forgiveness it sets us free. B strong DW.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04451706468799762835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19809141.post-45811162572122583492010-10-03T19:06:09.331-07:002010-10-03T19:06:09.331-07:00Hang in there Dawg. Don't be ashamed of your f...Hang in there Dawg. Don't be ashamed of your feelings<br /><br />PeaceDrenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19809141.post-50834078101710889142010-10-03T18:21:29.583-07:002010-10-03T18:21:29.583-07:00DW, I am so sorry to hear about your Grandfather, ...DW, I am so sorry to hear about your Grandfather, even though you have resentment, he is still part of you and you are in all your right to grieve...You are a better man for putting aside that resentment and going to see him. I was in a similar situation, I can honestly say I am glad I saw them...Hang in there....GigiGiginoreply@blogger.com