Wednesday, December 06, 2006

BODY BODY BODY

Hello to all the new fuckers in outerspace. Hello there how are ya??? Thats good thats good, Whats up with me???? NOT A DAMN THING!!!LOL I want to start out by saying this picture is for all the haters, stalkers and people that are nuts!!! I thought I would start off by saying a big fuck ya!!! Now down to business, I plan to do some appearances in New York at some locations. But I havent ironed out some of the details as of yet. Its weird, if u guys havent noticed most of the appearances that porn stars make is at clubs, bars, and special events. I have one rule of thumb, I dont dance on little boxes(I danced on some boxes for very short period)and have no plans on doing that at this point.(FUTURE FUTURE)Probably makes me sound like Im too good to dance on boxes. That is not the case at all, Figure Im 6'6 245lbs size 15 shoe, me standing on that box is a balancing act, I wouldnt be able to move or dance, without thinking Im gonna fall off the box. And that is the only reason besides, I just dont want to do it now(LOL). Stages!!, now that is another ball park I love the stage, plenty of room, I can move around and a big guy loves some room.MORE ON APPEARANCES LATER.
Oh Oh the posting body body, I really have killed myself lately and I thought It was a good idea to start a before and after shot. These are pics taken before my heavy training begins for Las Vegas. Yeah its decent now. Arms are getting there and the stomach can be tighter and the shoulders can widen a bit. Yeah it sucks, Im not a gym rat at all or some chelsea steriod queen, or gym bunny. I take out my pain and emotion in the weights(no seriously) This was a tough year for me alot of highs and some major lows.(NO THIS ISNT THE LAST BLOG OF THE YEAR) So when u see me happy with my life and the way Im living it. I will probably be a fat slob(think about it). Im unhappy with life, my life and everything in general. Im only human, the world could be perfect!!And I would still look for the flaw!! "This is too perfect, no crime, no sin, nothing!" BORING BORING BORING Bad shit happens in this world for a Reason!!!. U can either crawl under a bed and hide and be the coward u are. Or u can fight back!!! Dust urself off, Stand up And go right back at it!! Preachy Preachy(is this a word???)Okay Ranting Ranting about nothing now. I guess, what Im trying to say is that Im attacking Life right now. I made changes to diet, mental state, and my well being. Im pushing myself to be more approachable but this is a hard thing. Who to talk to and who not to talk to??? I could play the asshole and have the ugly look face on(I call it the look of death) or I can be nice. For me again I will say it, the way u approach me will determine the reaction u will get. For Fans of my work, 1. Remember my Name 2. Introduce urself first before even going into anything else(It breaks the ice that I at least know ur name since u already seen me naked and watched my work).3. If u have nothing to say at least give me a headnod(sounds strange but its even stranger when someone stares at ya, follows ya and doesnt have anything to say so this is easier)4. I dont pull out my penis for nobody in public 5. When I dont have a shirt on, I dont mind being touched above the waist, for a short period of time, as long as ur hands are warm/clean, and no pulling, biting, twisting my nipples(I WILL BE HONEST HERE MY NIPPLES HAVE NO FEELING AT ALL!!)anything below waist(U MIGHT GET PUNCHED IN FACE OR SLAMMED)not a good idea.
Oh here is an interesting topic that I wanted to touch: Most of u people out there that read this thing always ask " What about Religion???" " What are ya Views on Politics" "Are ya Spiritual ??" PEOPLE PEOPLE Who the fuck cares!!!!!! This is a limited space of mine where I dont need to talk about anything that I dont want to talk about. Okay Okay, truth beknown these are all very private subjects that I dont see the need for them to be brought to this stage. U guys just came here to hear some interesting news, jerk off to whatever pics I put up. And either read it and laugh or just take it in stride and be like "DAMN HOMEY DO UR THING". No Lie, but this blog gets harder and harder to write cause Im repeating myself. But to u guys that read this all the time, Sorry people but I get new readers weekly and they dont bother to look through previous posts. While its annoying, I have to be fair(I wouldnt want to go through each post and read and read, Im beening honest)so I have to reintroduce myself everytime. Changing the pace now. I wanted to add some funny things in this blog so lets start here.

New Topic, ONLINE HOOKUP ETIQUETTE(OH YES THERE IS ONE!!)
We all have done it at one point, either u have met someone online for lunch, or a meeting, or sealing the deal(fucking). Guy or Girl, either u have tried online dating, or service or just talked to in a chat room. We all in one way or another met someone online. Bah Bah Bah The sex junkies are reading this and saying"LETS GET TO IT ALREADY!!! I WANT TO KNOW MYSELF!!" Simple rules, I WISH EVERYBODY WOULD FOLLOW.

ONLINE HOOKUP ETIQUETTE: Simple rules for the 'HOOKUP"(my opinion)
1. Have a Current pic, now this annoys me, everybody uses their best shots of themselves. Thats not the problem, but why are the pics 3years old???? They dont have the same hairstyle, waistline, complexion, body parts bah bah bah. Fucking annoying its 2006(soon 2007) u dont have to own a digital camera I will give ya that one. But everybody knows a person that has a camera, or webcam or even taking ur hard film and changing it to digital at every Walmart, Riteaid, D&R. Kinkos, I can go on and on. Everything is online nowadays u just have to move into gear get it done.
2.Be UpFront, I think this so easy but I dont understand why some people lie and lie for no reason when its just sex or a meeting??? If ur going to ur hookup's house I think its a good idea that the person let ya know that they have roomates(and Vice versa) U expect to walk in, throw the guy on the floor and choke him with ur dick. But when u walk through the door, the guys has 3 female roomates, all infront of Tv, drinking soda and eating popcorn watching a movie. And he wants to walk ya by his roomates and go into his room(the bathroom is three doors down from his room, and u have to walk past the living room which is where the tv is to get to bathroom!!) Not a good look. Or ur at the hookup's house and the roomates walk in right in the middle of the action. Worse case is finishing ur business with the hookup and their parents come home. Why cant ya be upfront and say"My roomates/parents are gone and I dont know when they will be back "at least??? Yeah I know what about boyfriends/husbands/wives they should have been upfront about that as well. But this case is funny to me, all the times when a bf or husband walked in on "us" I always stayed calm cause I knew nobody was touching me(brave thinking yes), although when I see them running for a stash spot in the house I quickly make an exit. This is being upfront on lodging only.
3. Be Creative(meetings only) If u are planning to meet in a public spot, at least make it easy to get to. No small hole in the wall places that only the super spy can find. Eating spots are nice and comfortable and allows ya to talk and really get to know each other.
4. Be Realistic Ur online talking to some guy, and they are like yeah u can cum in my mouth and ass, shove a warning cone in my hole, and they want to be fisted and pissed on and have 10 huge black men hold them down and take turns on thier hole, and then he wants to be kept like a slave. Chances are he is a pussy in real life and talks a big game. All these elaborate scenarios, as soon as I stick my dick in they cant take it?? Now is it my fault??? That they made all these claims and cant back a word of it. If I say"IM GOING TO FUCK THE SHIT OUTTA YA!!" Chances are when I pull out, there is going to be some shit on the condom thats the way I live. I dont know how anybody else carries themself, but I mean every word I say. So know ur limits.
5. Be a Host Is it only me??? Or is this simple? If u have guests over, dont u offer things to drink or eat(Yeah paranoids u dont want to eat anything cause it might be laced with something but ur willing to have sex with some stranger LOL)I think its rude not to offer at least! If ur over at some guys house fucking and fucking at least they can offer ya some water(Instead of commanding them to) u can get dehydrated after a while. And no I shouldnt have to ask for water its not my house(I dont know where the glasses are LOL) At the very least, u can be a good host and have a clean shit towel(u know that towel u use to clean off ur dick and wipe the cum off) next to the bed. Bad taste to hand someone a towel that is hard and crusty(yuck) and has a odor to it.
6. Be UpFront(Looks) Tricky subject here folks whoa. I talked about having old pics... but we are talking about looks this time. Dont send me ur model shot if u dont look like anything in ur pic(okay model pics are always tricky)but Im talkng about u dont have that body anymore and gained 40lbs of fat since. Ur fuckng lying to urself and need help. I can talk and talk about looks but I only want to touch on a few things. If ur clean shaven and smooth in ur pics and in reality u have grown a beard and chest hair and back hair since then. U really need to be upfront. If u have a hot face/body and great ass and dont have any pics of ya smiling. Cause u know u have yuck mouth(missing teeth, discolored(badly), or looks like someone put a firecracker in ur mouth). U have two choices, either keep ur mouth shut the whole time and get fucked only(cause I aint putting my dick in ur mouth or kissing ya) or be upfront!!Some cases are more extreme then others. Women are alot harder to deal with. They can have a pretty face, great body, and hot ass and when they get naked, seem to forget when they gave birth it was by C section(minor to some, major to others) Its just being upfront is all, all these problems can be handled very easy being upfront. "Hey those model pics are kinda old I put on some wieght since then but Im still cute" "Hey I forgot to tell ya I havent shaved in a while so I have some hair on my body now" "I dont like to smile alot cause Im having my teeth worked on so until I have the perfect smile I wont be smiling in too many pics LOL" And for the woman with the C section she doesnt have to say anything online. All she has to do is say she prefers the lights off when she "Makes Love" LOL
7. Be Clear this is very general so I will explain. Cleary state what u can do sexually and what u can not do. Surprises at bed can be fun, and they can be a nightmares as well. Stranger sex is fun cause its the unknown and u have feel each other out. But clearly discuss online what ur limits are in bed and it helps the stranger to at least have something to go by when engaging in sex with ya. Clearly state what ur looking for, a long hard deep wet fuck or a Quickie. Bad taste to say looking for a long fuck and u cum within in 10mins of play(either party)not a good thing. Size is always something to be clear about. U may ask what about size??? Lets be real, when i say Im 9+inches I mean Im nine plus inches. Penis size will always be lied about, its just natural part of the game but at least stay with 1 -1 1/2 inches of true size if u have to lie(Im not too concerned about penis size cause I love fucking, but that was for all ya bottoms out there) For the Tops, we know all the bottoms in world think they have the best ass of all but we know better. Dont say u can take 13inches and when a 10in is fucking ya ur crying or running around scared to take it. Clearly state ur limits.
8. Partying or PNP(Im only 420 friendly) Im not opposed to partiers....... but its good to know beforehand that ur partying. Some sexual encounters are ruined by excessive partying, the focus should be more on the sex rather then the drugs. Lets be real, Im not supporting someone elses habit so if u got it then use it(if it helps ya get fucked longer Im all for it)if u start getting sketchy, paranoid, or just a lost cause, thats a messy situation I will have no part of. In all respect, being around partiers, is kind of boring. I dont know the turnon of getting high and higher and nobody cums(cause they cant, they cant even get hard)and messing around stopping for drugs breaks for hours on end. Stop and Go Stop and Go.My notion of a PNP session is some guys sitting around getting high and messing around for hours maybe even days, not getting off, and getting drugged up and fucked up and just trashing their body and mind till the body shuts down and u dont have any control over ur own body. Funny case, my friend tells me how he PNP, he takes E, K, G to get high and tweaked out, then needs to take viagra to get hard. After PNP session he needs 420 to calm down. And then muscle relaxers/sleeping pills to be able to sleep. At the same time he takes steriods, drinks coffee, and smokes cigarettes. Amazingly enough I dont know why he does this to his body, all the drugs is going to kill him. But Im ranting now, its his life.
9.Ur Name This might sound weird, but people a hookup is a hookup. Its animal sex at its best so dont expect people to remember ur name from a hookup. Introductions are quick and usually hooking up is done without the strings of remembering someones name. So I wouldnt get offended if the person u hooked up with doesnt remember ur name. Lets be grown up here, the sex/interaction was hot, I think they will remember ur body and cock more than remember ur name. If Im out of line, by saying remembering someones name is not that important sue me. Everyday people are hookin up without knowing the persons name its just part of the game. To me its a added plus when someone remembers ur name. Fake names Nicknames and just plain lieing come to expect that just the way the hook up game is played.
10. The Awkward Departure This is the most difficult part of the hook up, when the action or deed is done. What is the best course of action when it comes to leaving??? Depending on the person, I have fucked a guy or girl and as soon as I came on them, without a pause I stood up ran to bathroom cleaned up and made a quick exit. I want to make a rule and have at least a 1-2min rest period after the nut has been busted. Running to bathroom afterwards, may seem cold, cruel and shows that the the only connection between u and that person was a sexual one. This may vary depending on the chemistry between the people. U might end up sleeping over, cuddling, or just hanging out.
Now this list may be off alittle/lot or dead on. But the important things, to remember about hookingup. Play safe(god knows how many people this person fucked or got fucked by). Hooking up is exactly what it is hooking up. Dont expect to marry the person or settle down with the person. Hooking up is basically no strings fun, without the hassle of calling each other like lovers. Having to go through the emotions of having a relationship when u want to be free and enjoy life. Hooking up is not for everybody, some people want that emotional connection with a lover. Call it what u want, some people say hooking up is wrong, Some dont do at all and prefer to hang out at bars or clubs picking up people. The Online hookup is just what it is just a hookup. In closing, the bottomline is u two are strangers and met online. Dont have expectations when u both know it was a hookup. Geez this was a long blog I wanted to come up with something interesting in this blog. So SUCK ON THAT U DIRTY BITCH

2 comments:

filmfanatikk said...

Very well and clearly stated! Rules to live by. Just one question though. When are you going to come to LA for us west coasters to see you in the flesh? ChiChi has "Dirty Deeds' every Wed. and there is "Cocktails with the Pornstars" every Thrusday at Micky's. When can we see the man beyond the blog?????????

tony said...

I love this man. Based on rumors ranging from he is a snow queen to other shit I have read countless pages of his blog and u may hate him but HE IS REAL. I can relate to everything he has said about haters and the like. Keep doing ya thang Daddy. btw I for one love that nappy pubic hair u be sporting lol. U are a man and that is how a man in my book is supposed to look. Love ya